If you want to hear a book about caring for those we love, or try to love, without the judgmental and impractical suggestions, or the guilt laced saccharine “They took care of us so how can we ever complain about taking care of them?”, this is the book for you. It’s honest and uncomfortable and beautiful and comforting and contains bits of wisdom that will break your heart, and mend it. Elizabeth Berg has written another lovely book. It’s a gift to those of us who’ve been caregivers and may someday need caregivers.